I Want to Swing, but Don't Touch My Wife: The Guide to Accepting Your Wife's Pleasure

I Want to Swing, but Don't Touch My Wife:

The Guide to Accepting Your Wife's Pleasure

A male preparing himself to swing can be a lonely road... It's not something that we can easily talk about with our closest vanilla friends. Can you imagine talking to the boys about letting someone have sex with your girlfriend or wife, the same way you guys regularly talk about sex? “Hey i let Stacey get smashed by some dude the other day” or “Kerri got her back blown out by this couple last night”... The terms we use to describe sex alone will make your friends look at you like you’re crazy. So a lot of times we are forced to work it out in our own heads or do some reading in secret. Not all of us came into “The Lifestyle” knowing from the beginning that we would enjoy watching our women have sex with other men, and I am one of them. In fact the first time it happened was a terrible experience for me... Still, I did try again. And I ended up enjoying it completely. In my time in the lifestyle I have run into many men who had similar problems starting out. Certain actions make them insecure, bruise their egos, and gave them trust issues. Some of them could get over these things and find enjoyment, others found that swinging wasn't for them. I wanted to take some of these things that I see with newbie males and help them understand the new world and frame of mind that they are stepping into when it comes to watching your partner take pleasure from others.

Men usually come to a points that cause them discomfort and confusion in these two scenarios:

1. You want to try swinging but you don't want another man pleasing your wife. Why, because you are worried she will like his sex more than you. You are worried she will want him still after it's over. This could lead to you being afraid she will leave you for him, but let's be real, we are men... The thought of someone being better than us far outranks her leaving us in our brains, lol...

2. You started out swinging at full speed, had your first swapping session and you got insecure from hearing your wife moan the same way she moans with you. Watching her facial expressions during sex with the swapper. These things ultimately make you compare how she reacts to you versus how she reacts with him.

Firstly, you are not alone. Allot of us men have seen things happen with our wives during swap sessions that have made us stop and wonder.. It happens... You can believe that they have watched us and done the same things at times. The key to beating these feelings is to truly analyze where they come from in ourselves and also have real heart to heart conversations with our wives to understand what those things mean to her. If you can do those two things, you will find out for sure whether you can be a swinger or not.

So without further ado, I would like to go over a few main bullet points that will help you get over Ego Mountain and on to the promise land of swapping!

1.“Showing Interest in Men”.

This will probably be your first line of discomfort. I have seen this one really make a man lose his mind... I remember when I was first getting into “The Lifestyle”, this was a tough one for me (no I wasn't always the perv I am now)… It was hard for me to wrap my brain around the fact that I wasn't the only person that she could be interested in at the moment... “Am I not good enough” or “Can she be trusted” used to run through my head a lot, but communication and trust, ended my fears in time. Look, the reality is, no one on this earth gets with the one they love and never thinks anyone else looks good. It's natural to find qualities in others that attract us. We choose not to act on these feelings when we are in monogamous relationships as a way to prove our love, so we form commitments that put our loved ones above everyone else... When it comes to swinging you have to change this train of thought some. Make an adjustment I would say… When you are a swingers couple you still have boundaries and commitments towards sex, but you are widening them when it comes to you both enjoying sex with others. You are saying its ok for you to show affection and intimacy in others as long as it's in a controlled environment that we can both find enjoyment from. You are not giving your woman a license to just show interest in every hot guy she sees. Nor are you saying she can sleep with whoever she wants... At the right time and place you two are allowed to let each other enjoy relaxed boundaries because it's comfortable and it turns you both on… This is the foundation of swinging... You have to both want to see each other perform. It can't just ONLY be about you or her getting the nut they want from someone else. If you don't care to watch your significant other be please by someone else, you are in this for the wrong reasons. Remember that before this, your wife/gf has never shown her interest for other men in any proactive manner.. She loves and adores you. This isn't the guy that’s going to replace you, move in, and start taking over all the bills. He is the guy that you have chosen to allow her to have a little extra fun with, the same way she is allowing you to play with his significant other.

                                       

    2. “Moans Are A Good Thing”.

This is another one that will fuck with our heads... When we heard our woman moan uncontrollably for the first time... I think there is one thing that goes through every man's mind “I got her ass now” lol… This is one hell of an ego builder... “Look at what I made her do”. She’s shaking... She can hardly talk. She is sweating and out of breath… “Man I put in some work!” That work solidified your control over her. She could never get fucked like that with anyone else... “IM THE KIIINNNGGGGG OF THIS PUUUSSSYYYYYYY….”

Now that's how we have all felt at some point or another about our significant others… but here is the reality... You may be her best partner ever, and this is very possible. You may be the only man that can make her cum or in a specific way… but you can't ever think that there is no way she will not make the same sounds, or reactions to sex with someone else.. I mean come on guys... How many different ways can she show happiness with sex? Should she have certain moans and groans that she only does with you, and then another set of moans for everyone else?? Can she only talk dirty to you or say your name, but never say that stuff when she is with a swapper? Can you imagine having to think about that constantly while having sex? What if she told you that you could only stroke in and out on another female. No circular movements … all of a sudden this isn't as fun... “She is hindering my performance... I can't really put it down like I want to… It’s not like I’m trying to marry the chick. I just want to make a good show of it...” well if that is what went through your head, then now you know how she feels. Women don't have but so much to do when fucking. Relax your muscles, stretch, arch when needed, throw it back when they can, and make noise. There is only so many ways that all of that can be done guys… If she sounds like she enjoys it, it doesn't mean she is leaving you, it doesn't mean she now realizes that there is another good dick in the world. It doesn't mean that YOU AREN'T SPECIAL!! It just means that she enjoys it... So cheer her on! Tell her to take it! Tell him to fuck her harder... You would be amazed at how much more fun swinging can be when you two interact with each other during it! The best thing to do for this issue if you have it, is to talk to your partner about what could possibly make you uncomfortable from her reactions and see what you can come up with to gradually work to the point where they don't anymore... Maybe you need a few sessions in before she can go 0-100, which is fine... Just try not to hinder her permanently or at the end you will be hindering yourself.

                                                                                                  

     3.  “Your Woman Is Not Dickmatized”

Your woman is not dickmatized by you nor can she be dickmatized by any other man. She is not the kind of woman that can have sex with a man and his dick alone is the sole reason why she will love him forever, and never leave him... I know many women who can have incredible sex with a guy and honestly never give it much other thought... Why, because sex is no binding contract or act that makes them change their life. Just because a woman lets you control her body in bed, doesn't mean you control her mind or actions. It's just a fun activity, no different than the way many men see it. I KNOW I KNOW..... This can be a tough one to accept... That your woman did not choose you because you were the chosen one... But you have to accept that you may not have the Golden Rod, the Dick Spear of Destiny or the Magic stick that squirts out the love potion 69…Now this is not to say that your wife doesn’t think you are her favorite or her best lover... As we mentioned in the point above, you could be the only man that ever made her cum... Or cum a certain way... so how can someone else possibly make her sound the same way you make her sound during sex... It just means that you have to face the reality that you're not the only man that can make her feel good during sex. A woman can have a few top lovers in her life for many reasons, but there is a reason why she is with you and not them... It’s because you were able to stimulate her mentally in a way no other man can... And that's the thing that separates you from everyone else... Your heart AND your dick… To put it simply. If a woman is in love with you, your 5 inch dick will feel like 10 inches... Consequently if she hates you, your 10 inch dick will feel like 5 inches.

         

                                                               

    4.  Equally Speaking... If either one of you can be affected by swinging to the point where it negatively affects your general sex life, then you don't need to be doing this. You have to have trust that each of you can come out of each swing session satisfied with each other. There has to be a bonding experience. In my opinion. If you didn't enjoy watching your partner... Then something went wrong... In my experience a lot of swingers after years of different experiences, can go left in this aspect... All of a sudden they aren't focusing on the experience for the bond. They don't have anything to talk about after the experience is over. Nothing turned them on or excited them about watching their partner... If they watched them at all... The experience has become more for personal variety then about sharing each other... Don't ever forget your roots... Because the longer you stay away from them, the harder it is to get back to them.

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Unicorns Are People Too: Tips For Swinging With The Single Female

 

Unicorns Are People Too: Tips For Swinging With The Single Female

By Serendipity702

As a single female, aka a "unicorn," I'm approached rather frequently by couples and singles looking for fun and frolic. While I appreciate and am flattered by the advances, there are a few things (okay, more than a few things), that sometimes get under my skin a bit. I don't purport to speak for all single females in the lifestyle, but sometimes I feel like people think that unicorns are no more than a piece of meat, dangling out there for all to use and enjoy, and that's not the best feeling. So, in the spirit of helpfulness, I thought I'd compile a quick guide for swinging with single females. Again, this is just from my perspective- everyone has their own individual likes, wants, needs, and desires, but this may be handy as a starting point.

 

First, when contacting a single female, it is probably best NOT to lead off with something sexual. Nothing makes me roll my eyes faster than when a couple or another single mentions playing or what they want to do to me sexually during the first message or exchange. How about a "hi, how are you?" I want to feel valued as a person, not just a toy for your amusement. So, take a bit of time to get to know me on a non-sexual level, at least for a few messages.  Compliments are a great way to break the ice, but don't go overboard with them, especially as it pertains to sex. Ask me about what I do for fun, my likes, my favorite things.  I am someone who enjoys relationship building and getting to know people first (I know not everyone is like this), so don't rush this process. It's not a race! 

 

Once we progress beyond the pleasantries and start to get to know each other, we may start discussing things of a more sexual nature. If we're at that point, that's totally fine, but don't go from 0-100 right away. Just like you wouldn't go straight for the pounding in a play situation, ladies need a little foreplay and warm up first when it comes to conversation. Remember, at this point, we're still pretty much strangers. So while you might want to tell me all about how you want to devour my kitty and stuff me with your hard dick- restraint is key.   Let the flow of the conversation dictate the pace. And, because it can't be mentioned enough, a word about pictures. I love pictures-  taking them, sending them, and seeing them. But PLEASE, for the love of all that is holy, do NOT surprise me with an unsolicited dick, kitty, or action shot. If I want to see that, I will certainly ask for it. BUT if I happen to open my messages at the gym, grocery store, or anywhere else and BLAM, there's a picture of someone's privates... No Bueno.

 

As a side note, for some reason, many people think that single females in the lifestyle are either desperate and/or down for whatever. I'm sorry to disappoint, but that's usually not the case.  Speaking for myself, I'm able to get sex pretty easily, if that's what I want. Most of us are intelligent, attractive, well-rounded people, and we didn't start our lifestyle journeys out of desperation or from a lack of sex. I am not attracted to the lifestyle just to get easy sex with random people- that's not my aim. I like the freedom of it, the sexiness, the openness, the flirtation. So approaching me as if I should just be happy to get an offer probably isn't going to get you very far. 

 

Back to the process! After some connection has been established, you may suggest meeting in person. A meeting in a public place, like a restaurant, bar, or lounge to see if there is in-person chemistry works best for me. Suggesting that I come to your home or hotel room for a first meeting will likely be declined.  I always go to these "first dates" without expecting to play- I hate feeling pressured. If our chemistry is just AMAZING and the logistics work out, then perhaps more will happen on that first date, but more times than not, it won't. Anyway, sometimes half the fun is in building anticipation! 

 

Unfortunately, sometimes the chemistry just isn't right. Perhaps your unicorn wasn't what you expected, or you  (and/or your partner) weren't what she expected. That's okay. Just be kind and respectful- whether you are the one conveying that things won't go further, or the recipient of that information. Don't force the issue, don't get upset, and please, don't try to pressure her into doing something she's not fully comfortable with. Likewise, if you and your partner aren't on BOTH on the same page and BOTH totally on board, do NOT try to play regardless. It's uncomfortable for everyone to get caught in the midst of someone else's drama. 

 

Enough of the negative. Let's say all has gone well. We've connected via message, we've had some great conversations, things have graduated to sexy talk, we've exchanged pictures, we've met in person, had some drinks,  laughs, and great chemistry. Awesome! Now comes the time to take the next step and set up a play date. Think of it as you would any other date, and again, remember- we're not going 0-100 here! Some drinks, maybe a light meal, and something to set the mood and ease your unicorn into things would be great.  If you're going back to your house, make sure that it is clean, and that it has all of the items she'd need. One of my best experiences with a couple was one where we went out for drinks, then went back to their place, where we had a little snack and started to make out a bit. We moved into the bedroom, and they showed me to the bathroom so we all could freshen up a little before playtime.  They had everything I could think of- towel, soap, washcloth,  a new toothbrush, toothpaste, mouthwash, deodorant- they obviously were not new to this! 

 

Hopefully, I don't have to educate anyone on the intricacies of sexy time, so I'll just share a few words of wisdom here. Your unicorn is a guest, and she should be treated as one- with courtesy, respect, and as though you are happy and excited to have her there. Ask about her likes/dislikes, her rules or boundaries, and include her in whatever your fun time entails. You want her to have a pleasant experience, so hopefully she'll return! 

 

Dealing with things after you've played with your unicorn can be tricky sometimes. Your urge may be to say something like, "that was fun," right after things are over and show her the door so you can snuggle with your significant other or go to sleep. Please don't do that. You'll leave your unicorn feeling cheap, used, and sad. This is not to say that she has to sleep over or cuddle with you all night, but give her a little time and attention after the action has concluded. She'll likely want to clean up a bit, and if she wants to leave right away, no problem, don't hold her hostage. Just make sure she knows how much fun you had, how you'd like to see her again (if you would) and show her some affection before she leaves. It feels really awful to have spent your time and shared your body with someone and then be discarded, so please be considerate. 

 

After your unicorn has departed and you're basking in the afterglow, remember to reach out to her the next day (or even the same night), to thank her for her company. Even if there is not a repeat performance, I always think fondly of the people who really treated me with kindness and respect. That's what this is all about, right? Respect.  Happy unicorn hunting! 

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The next Generation Of Swingers

The culture of swinging is constantly transforming, adhering to the changes in the broader dating world. The 21st century has been a pivot point for psychology, biology and sexuality thanks to technological advances.  

Let's take a look at how these innovations will affect the swinging society:

Flirting and swinging are like peanuts and peanut butter: you need one to get to the other. One of the wildest changes to the swinging world has been technology. Websites like mywildlifestyle and their mobile app are becoming staples for all lifestyles who want to meet, greet and flirt their way into the sheets. Now, a new interactive sex toy may make those late night videos even more exciting. The simplest explanation is that the toy is is a physical representation of anatomy that responds to digital signals being shared via webcam by two parties. Laments: when you're favorite couple is webcamming you, hook up this USB operated dildo or dilgina and put in some work. Want to know more? Times Reports New Interactive Sex Toy

MWL swingers are already abusing and misusing technology for our sexual delight (click here to find out) so it will be no surprise if we move on to molesting technology too! With these cyber sex dolls and vibrating panties that an online partner controls the advents of pleasure are never ending!

The joy of having multiple partners is that you can watch sex while having sex. You can watch your wife orgasm while shoving your dick into a wet tight hole. Google knows how much we love to look and made something to appeal to the voyeurs in us all; the google glass sex app allows you to watch yourself having sex while having sex! The app had the potential to connect to enabled lamps and music devices so you can be the Porn Producer you've always felt like you were at play parties. Read more here.

Sadly, Google glasses have been discontinued for now. But I have faith in our generation and and the many markets for technology. Perhaps if we make enough noise we can dissuade Samsung or even Apple to follow through? Filming and recording our freaky fun is second nature. Don't believe me? Check out some of the wildest real life swinging videos (MWL members showing out).

Safe sex and swinging are more synonymous than most vanilla assume. In the future we will be able to use our protection to diagnose and detour sexually transmitted diseases.  Thanks to the creative integrity of two teenagers who are working towards developing condoms that change color when they come into contact with STI. They even have a color coded system enabling the condom to change to a specific color for each prevalent disease. More info here!

For us swingers we will be able to determine our levels of intimacy simply by reading a chart. Not only does this invention help protect us, the shame of having a condom indicate anything other than healthy should definitely encourage people to be thorough about their sexuality health.

So here you have it.... The the new day of swinging will have way more cyber sex- with sensation! - an interactive way to record and watch yourself in the act and ways to ensure sex is always safe and satisfying. Let's look forward to the future and to the craziest swinger party in NYC:MWL's  Naughty Back 2 School Party.

To all my freaks and kinks

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The Seven Sins of Online Swinger Dating

The Seven Sins of Online Swinger Dating: The best way to navigate your online swinging profile

        GREED: Know your servings. Always pay attention to whether a profile represents a couple or a single.USE THE APPROPRIATE GREETING; acknowledging both members of the couple and be sure to ask a single female about her current status.

The Ultimate Sin: Sending a message to a couple and only acknowledging the female!!!

ENVY: No camouflage.. Ever! Men in couples should  not chat online with anyone under the pretense that they are the wife/gf. ALWAYS BE CLEAR ABOUT WHO IS SPEAKING. Not only is this deceitful and misleading but it doesn't work for couples you actually play with. Once you all get comfortable with each other its going to become obvious that she wasn't the one talking.

The Ultimate Sin: Flirting with the male half of one couple in lieu of your absent wife. Just despicable. You will probably give the couple a good laugh after the startle fades but they will laugh at you when they see you. Every. Single.Time.

WRATH: Don’t hold someone in contempt if they have to tell you no. UNDERSTAND AND RESPECT OTHER SWINGERS’ SCHEDULES. People have jobs and family lives … So dont be surprised if very few couples/singles can’t meet you for a weekday playdate. The best course of action is to always plan for the future.

The Ultimate Sin: Intentionally planning a play date/party that conflicts with another member out of spite. Accidents happen and birthdays tend to cluster but if a play date is planned way ahead of time, the appropriate thing to do is to reach out to that person first and see if you can alter or even combine your schedule.

SLOTH: Nothing is less attractive than a lazy lover! Closed mouths don't get fed. If you see a couple or a single female that you are interested in, don’t just click on the like button. SEND THEM A PRIVATE MESSAGE and really get to know them!

The Ultimate Sin: Waiting till you meet them at the party to tell them how much you've been thinking about them. Especially after e-stalking their pictures!

PRIDE: Don’t be too bold. Though most females get away with lewd photography (it’s even in burger commercials) there is a certain sexy to keeping it classy. Always be aware of where you share pictures and how receptive the receiver is to nudity on their phone.DICK PICS ARE NEVER A GOOD THING to lead with when contacting a couple or single lady.

The Ultimate Sin: Sending a couple’s or single ladies account an unsolicited dick pic. Ew.

GLUTTONY: The Lifestyle is not an All you can eat" buffet. You can just grab anyone you want an get what you want at any time. Before you stick your face in some yummy, stick your nose in a book! Make sure you HAVE SOME KNOWLEDGE BESIDES HEARSAY. Swingers have a different definition of love than most contemporary couples and we tend not to  think the same way vanilla people do. Reading blogs/articles like this, signing up on a discrete swinging community , and going to swinger meet-and-greets  are great ways to learn the lifestyle lingo and avoid offending any potential playmates.

The Ultimate Sin: Coming to a swinger party with a stranger just for the kicks of it. We don’t need vanilla voyeurs anymore than a dog needs fleas. A new swinger can come and inform themselves but if you are not lifestyle friendly, just lifestyle curious, then I would like you to google any inquiries you have from the safety of your desktop. Thank you!.

LUST: While we can admit this is probably the one sin I promote the most, there is a limit to all things, even the sultry and delicious. Do not be too forward and DO NOT EXPECT SEX with someone simply because they are a swinger or attend a lifestyle event.

The Ultimate Sin: Becoming belligerent/spiteful or even disheartened because a potential playmate turned you down. C’mon. You’re a sexy ass mofo. Go out there and find someone who can help you get yours harder than he/she/they could!

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An Arousing Anecdote

AN AROUSING ANECDOTE

LS LINGO

It was either the depth of his long forceful stroke or the way she moaned while more of her juices stained my already smothered lips that caused me to climax harder than—harder than I ever did before in my life. Looking up at her I licked my lips seductively and she squeezed my neck with her legs. Then she hopped off the bed and bent over to give me a deep sensual kiss. He forcefully thrusted reminding me that I was not yet done. He grabbed my handcuffs and used them to anchor my waist as he shoved five more into me, let out a deep grunt with each one. MY legs quivered as he left me, receding from his own climax. Still cuffed and bound I felt my own fluids dripping down my leg. He carefully untied me and motioned towards the bathroom where his girlfriend was cleaning up. Instead of getting up I laid down in the bed smelling the scent of making intense love, the scent of these two people who were just strangers to me hours ago…..

Four hours before this I had been invited to a BDSM Swingers Party in Astoria. I was 23, single and according to the couple that invited me I was a unicorn.

As I got dressed the female half of the couple rang my doorbell. She hurried in, criticizing my outfit for being too vanilla. I was reminded that this party will be on premise.

I heard about swinger parties before but never got around to going to one. My friends had been members of an online lifestyle community My Wild Lifestyle. They ran off a list of their close friends, some people who were friends of mines as well, all of them who were on the site and were also swingers. It amazed me and still does... all these people that I knew were secretly swingers, secretly fucking each other and then going out to brunch as though nothing was the matter.  I always thought it would be too intense for me. My friend suggested I come with a single male, a bull who wanted to come out to the party. I should avoid going to the second floor of the club. I was not sure what I wanted to do but I knew I was NOT going home with s single male. I wanted to live up the night and that meant it would not end the way any night in a regular club would. I ripped off my dress and left on only the purple and black corset, my purple thong, and the fishnet stockings that were supposed to barely peep out over my tall boots. I felt like a sexy super hero.

It was not until we walked into the club that I got to see what she was wearing. Her blue eyeshadow matched the blue shiny blue pasties and the blue skirt she wore. I never saw my friend naked like this, and never realized how succulent her breasts were. A blue horsetail peeped out of the tiny leather skirt. I later learned that she was plugged to advertise her enthusiasm for anal.

Her husband showed up later in some slacks and a bowtie. He was shirtless. I almost felt overdressed when I scanned the club. Tits, thighs, stomachs and chests were all exposed as though a buffet of erogenous body parts was laid out before me.  Clamps, leashes and people bonded with ropes were also on display. I grabbed my drink, a prepared Long Island Iced Tea that I made with a shot of Hennessy. Knowing that the club was BYOB I uninhibited myself and got a bit faded before hitting the dance floor. I had not finished my drink but already three woman had complimented me, two men introduced themselves and their wives to me and one couple asked me to save them a dance.

I felt sexy as hell and I realized that I was surrounded by many types of beautiful ladies. The pheromones alone almost drowned me.

Finally hitting the dance floor I saw my friend on a small stage with a pole. She was so flirty and sexy, flipping her hair and rubbing her breasts as another girl grinned behind her. I realized the girl was Lucia, a busty Hispanic woman who had introduced me to her husband ‘Mister K’. She explained to me that they had a Daddy Dom relationship and he was to be addressed as Mister. She motioned for me to join and I felt someone slightly touch my neck as I moved through the crowd and hopped on the stage.

I danced slowly, hoping no one could see the moisture in my panties.

I bounced between the couple I came with, the bar where my drink sat and this new couple; Lucia and Mister K. At one point I found Mister K spanking a woman who was not his wife with a paddle. I watched his crotch bulge and his eyes widen with excitement as her ass got redder and her screams got louder. I thought he was making a scene but the females 69’ing in the corner had most people’s attention. I grabbed the paddle and smacked the girls right butt cheek. She turned around, sensing the difference in intensity and when we made eye contact I blew her kiss. Having control over her body turned me on beyond words and I began to rub my own ass on Mister K as I smacked hers. He whispered something about going upstairs to a playroom with his wife. I leaned in to tell him okay and he took advantage, grabbing my face and kissing it gently. I almost came from that kiss alone.

BREAK DOWN OF LS LINGO

BDSM – including bondage, domination and submission, and roleplay BDSM includes a variety of erotic fetishes and many swingers experiment with a variety of these.

Unicorn- a single woman in the lifestyle.  A rare and precious site.

 Vanilla – those who are not about the lifestyle life.

On premise- a party area that encourages and facilitates sex on their premises. IMO the best type of parties!

Bull- a single male in the lifestyle. Though it may seem uncommon there are couples looking for single males but the term comes from the idea that these men are invasive and obvious.

Plugged (anal plug) – a good way to advertise that you are ready and willing for anal play is by wearing a decorative anal plug. Though anal is not every swingers style, I personally keep a nice supply of plugs for some fun.

Clamps- Nipple clamps for the naughty girls who like a little bit of pain.

Leashes- Another personal favorite leashes are used by submissive women. The leash allows them to be controlled by anyone who they offer it to. My leashes are always in the hands of a nasty rough lover during the play parties. I would not have it any other way.

Ropes – particularly for the B in BDSM rope, especially Japanese bondage rope,  can be used to tie a young woman up and, with her permission, fuck the permission out of me…I mean her… *takes hand out of panties* .. Where was I?

Dom- For the D in BDSM Doms are the names for the dominating half of a couple that usually is given permission to control the will of the submissive half. My Dom particular enjoys spanking me, tying me up, teasing me until I beg, fucking me until my knees bend, denying me my right to cum and then making me cum uncontrollably by barely touching me. Just talking about it makes me wet.

Paddle- One of the tools used to give a nice, lasting spanking to a naughty swinger.

Playroom – Most on-premise locations include private rooms with freshly cleaned sheets, condoms and tools to help swingers.

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